LU-7251 osp: do not assign commit callback to every thandle

with OSP there is a risk of getting a lot of commit callbacks.
say, 10K unlinks/sec on 4-striped files could result in 4*10K*5
= 200K commit callbacks. this patch implements another schema:
every OSP registers own callback every second. this should result
in 4*5 commit callbacks in the same situation. in case of forced
sync the commit callback is registered unconditionally.

the patch removes th_tags and th_ctx from struct thandle as they
are not used anymore. this elimintates 3 allocations from every
transaction:
(lu_object.c:1714:keys_init()) kmalloced 'ctx->lc_value': 320
(update_records.c:1217:update_key_init()) kmalloced 'value': 408
(osp_dev.c:1807:osp_txn_key_init()) kmalloced 'value': 4

Lustre-change: https://review.whamcloud.com/17270


Lustre-commit: 0ba690a5

Change-Id: I460d5eccb585b166423d84d5c142af2e27751d8b
Signed-off-by: Alex Zhuravlev <alexey.zhuravlev@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <andreas.dilger@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Lai Siyao <lai.siyao@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Minh Diep <minh.diep@intel.com>
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/29879


Tested-by: Jenkins
Tested-by: Maloo <hpdd-maloo@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: John L. Hammond <john.hammond@intel.com>