LU-10569 build: properly package lustre for Debian/Ubuntu

Remove the obsolete linux-patch since patched kernels for lustre
clients have been long gone. Place only the static libraries and
*.so symlinks for the dynamic libraries in lustre-dev. The normal
dynamic libraries are placed into the utilities packages. Add in
all the missing dependencies and fix how the lustre debs are
dependent on each other. Lastly add in the missing lustre-iokit
that is present for rpm packages. Only thing missing is a package
for lustre resources which can be done at a latter time.

Test-Parameters: trivial

Lustre-change: https://review.whamcloud.com/31348


Lustre-commit: 020277f5

Change-Id: I5fd2a23bc1ae73434cef8dcf3679b50878256ab3
Signed-off-by: James Simmons <uja.ornl@yahoo.com>
Signed-off-by: Minh Diep <minh.diep@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <andreas.dilger@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Stibor <t.stibor@gsi.de>
Tested-by: James Nunez <james.a.nunez@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Minh Diep <minh.diep@intel.com>
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/32277


Tested-by: Jenkins
Tested-by: Maloo <hpdd-maloo@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Bob Glossman <bob.glossman@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: John L. Hammond <john.hammond@intel.com>